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Common questions you might want to ask

 

Got questions?  Let me try to answer them for you!

 

You’ve read through my About page, and realised I might well be just the kind of girl you’re looking for.  But you also have a couple of questions, and you’re not quite sure how to ask them…

 

Relax!  It’s totally normal to want to know more.  To make it easy for you to find the answers, I’ve put together a list of the seven most common questions I hear.

 

Have a quick check to see if yours is amongst them.  If not, please don’t hesitate to get in touch to ask me personally!

1.

Are your services all legal?

 

Absolutely!  All my services comply 100% with Queensland legislation, where private service providers are free to operate within the law, as long as they meet certain standards. 

Neither I, nor any of my clients, do anything wrong in the eyes of the authorities. Rest assured that you can enjoy your time with me without attracting unwanted interest!

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Do you offer unprotected services?

 

Never: I value both my health and the health of my clients – and all of their current and future partners – far too much to take irresponsible risks.

 

Plus, as a private provider, I’m legally required to have regular, 3-monthly sexual health testing, which ensures my clients can feel safe engaging my services. Failing these tests would jeopardise my livelihood, which is why I use safe sexual practices at all times.

 

Beyond that, Queensland law makes it a crime to ask for, accept or provide unprotected services (that’s one of the “standards” I mentioned back in Question 1).  Asking this question tells me that you don’t value your own health, or respect me as a provider.  That means we’re a bad fit, so if you ask, I will automatically refuse to see you as a client.

What can I do to make our time together as enjoyable as possible?

 

I love this question, because the fact that you’re asking it tells me we’re likely to get on wonderfully together.  Every booking is unique, so specifics might vary, but there are three things you can’t go wrong with:

 

  • Be clear about what you want up front, and be decent and professional to me when you make your booking.  This should really go without saying, but unfortunately, sometimes it just doesn’t. Try to bring the same sense of respect to your conversation with me that you’d bring if you were booking an appointment with your hairdresser or personal trainer.

Remember: your booking is my first introduction to you, and is where I decide whether or not I want to keep seeing you. Initial impressions really do count; and if I feel disrespected when you first approach me, it’s a good sign that I won’t enjoy spending time with you.  That means I’m not interested in going forward with your booking, and I’ll refuse to see you.

  • Expect to get the payment logistics out of the way up front. While I seriously love my work, this is also my livelihood.  You can pay me in cash at the beginning of a booking, or make a bank transfer at least 3 working days beforehand. That way, it will have had time to clear before we meet.

    Sorting out the money logistics first gets them out of the way, and allows us to simply get on with enjoying each other’s company.

    Please note: my rates are fixed, and I’m not interested in negotiating around them. If you prefer to haggle, I’m probably not the right girl for you.

  • Don’t underestimate the power of good hygiene!  I’m all about authenticity, which means I don’t care what labels you wear, or whether you have facial hair or not. Good hygiene, on the other hand, is essential for me to enjoy my time with you.

I have a comfortable, fully equipped shower that you can use to clean up before we start. And as far as I’m concerned, there’s nothing sexier than the smell of clean, fresh skin. 

 

That’s why all my bookings start with my client taking a shower.

4.

I'm just not sure about seeing an escort (and a little unsure whether she'd want to see me!)

 

I totally understand: our culture makes the act of reaching out for simple, no-strings-attached fun and companionship seem unnecessarily awkward.  I promise you though, once we actually connect, any unease will melt away (that is, after all, my superpower!) 

 

Until that point, it might help to keep the following ideas in mind:

 

  • There is nothing in this world more natural than wanting to enjoy the pleasure and intimacy of sex.

  • With the right person, someone who accepts you exactly as you are,  a  sexual experience can be freeing, and even healing.

  • I learned long ago that the most important things about a person lie well below the surface.  I care far more about who you are as a person than whether you’re the right age, build, or physical match for what society calls “attractive”. I’ll accept or reject your booking based on how you speak and act towards me, rather than on how you look when I see you.

  • Once I’ve decided we’re a good match, the thing I care most about is looking after you.  For the duration of our time together, I make it my mission to ensure you’re relaxed and enjoying yourself.

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What services do you actually offer?

 

Unfortunately, Queensland law makes it illegal for me to publicly list the specifics of my services.  I’m more than happy to discuss them with you when you contact me for a booking though.

 

If you’re looking for something in particular, please don’t hesitate to ask me when you get in touch.  If it’s not something I offer, I’m comfortable telling you that upfront without judging you for wanting it.  If it’s something I enjoy providing, I’ll tell you that too – and let you know exactly what to expect rates-wise.

What if I want to see you outside of the hours you've listed?

 

I understand: spending time together with me is fun, so you want more – but you’re not always available at the same time I am. I’m flattered that you’ve enjoyed yourself enough to ask.

 

HOWEVER.  To offer you the best possible experience when we’re together, and to genuinely enjoy my time with you, I need to live a full, balanced life.  My work is an important part of who I am – but it’s only one part.

 

 

Because of that, I’m fiercely protective of my downtime. That means I’ll almost always refuse requests for bookings outside of my usual hours – so please don’t be offended if I say “no” to yours.

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How do you like to be touched during a booking?

 

Again, thank you for asking – not all guys would be that thoughtful and considerate!  Touch preferences are such an individual thing: we all enjoy different types, and intensities, of stimulation. So it’s awesome that you care enough to want to know mine.

 

Personally, I love being touched gently and respectfully. Slow, sensual stroking is probably the singlemost arousing thing you can do for me.  There’s nothing inherently wrong with rougher play – some girls really enjoy grabbing, groping, pinching or very firm pressure – but for me, it’s a major moodkiller.

 

If you ever do something I don’t like, I’ll tell you clearly (don’t worry: I don’t expect you to be a mind-reader!)  But if you’re not sure whether I’d welcome a particular kind of touch, it’s totally OK to ask me outright.  Questions like “Does that pressure that feel OK?” or “Do you mind if I...?” are sexy!

Want to know more?  Just ask when you contact me!

While these are the seven most common questions I hear, they’re not the only ones (listing all of them would make this page way too long!)

 

So, if you want to know anything I haven’t mentioned here, please just bring it up when you email or text me about your booking. 

 

As long as you ask respectfully, I promise I won’t mind!  Just click the big blue button below so you can contact me now!

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